Into ephambili kumantombazana kukuziva ukuba bayaxatyiswa, ukuva amazwi amnandi entliziyweni yabo kwaye bangangxami. Useza kuthi Ewe, kuphela iya kuba kukhetho lwakhe. Ngoko umntu wasemzini wasebenza ngokupheleleyo - ngenxa yoko wafumana ibhaso. Kwaye yingono enkulu.
Kunqabile ukuba ndilinganise oku, kodwa ezintlanu eziphezulu kule kliphu. Akubalulekanga kangako ukuba umahluko yobudala kunye nendoda eqolileyo uhlobo ilawula, kwaye akukho nokuba phambi kwabantu abangabaziyo - kodwa oku kuya kubhenela ngokuqinisekileyo nabani na ovulwa ngesondo ngeempahla. Kwade kwashushu.
Ukuba indlu yentombi yakho ngumama wakhe othandekayo, hlala ulugcina luvulekile ucango lwegumbi lokulala. Awufuni ukunciphisa impundu yakho kwimpundu enye xa kukho enye ekufutshane. Ngaphezu koko, akaneliseki.